cute090 Posted February 8, 2012 Share Posted February 8, 2012 So my ex broke up with me at christmas. We had been dating 5 months and became very close. The connection we had was just amazing nothing either of us had felt before. He said he couldnt imagine me not in his life etc etc! anyway we lived an hour 10mins apart and he felt that over xmas he didnt miss me as much as he thought he should and that his feelings had changed. I have re analysed every last detail of te relationship and we were just perfect for each other. I cant find a single thing i felt that i done wrong i didnt argue, i kept the relationship exciting with new things to do, listened to him, dressed pretty for him, and really made an effort for him. we never argued, we laughed together and even had plans into the future. Just nothing i can pin point and he said i was the perfect girl for him and he couldnt ask for more hence it came so out of the blue when he came down to dump me! Ive never been so devastated. he did say he wanted to keep in touch as he cared so much about me and he said he really ment that. Anyway emotions running high following it texts were exchanged just kindof going over things more me asking him and getting upset as to why it happened. i tried to be cool after the break up and he did text me a few times to see how i was. that was until it just got to much and i got upset over my texts. he said his mind was made up and he felt it was for the best. He also said it was hard on him too etc. Anyway since then he has deleted me as a friend on facebook and i havent heard from him. So it feels like he didnt care about me or what we had and also that he didnt mean about staying in touch?? just looking for peoples views around why he would just cut me off like this and also why its so hard for him yet he was the one that broke it off!!! also does anyone have any comments on why he broke it off in a situation where no arguments, i never got on his back about anything, i id all the right things, we had chemistry and he also said this etc yet break it off? Link to comment
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