Nadia62 Posted February 8, 2012 Share Posted February 8, 2012 I'm so mad at the moment due to the immense sense of betrayal I feel. My partner of 5 years (we've lived together for the last 3 years), left on a biz trip and I hacked into his yahoo account because something made me feel uneasy. I found an email from Adult Friend Finder, with his username. I logged in using his username, and played around with some passwords....and there I was in his Gold membership account. His profile says he's "just looking to see" and looking for Women, Man and Woman, or 2 Women for erotic chat and email. I am devastated. My life doesn't feel worth living, all my dreams are gone now. He knows I left my marriage because my ex cheated on me, he actually did. I moved to England (where he was from), and within a year he was cheating. This guy of 5 years seemed stable (was previously married for 15 years, plus 3 kids), and we get along great. I truly love him. But now this. Upon checking out his profile a bit further, I find 74 HOTLISTED in his account. Some were looking for erotic chats, yes, but most were looking for 1-1 sex. I have no way of knowing if he's actually hooked up with anyone. He has sent ZERO emails or flirts to anyone. But his Hotlist is loooooong! I'm thinking of moving out. He's currently away, and I've made screen grabs of each web page of his profile, including his billing information (which clearly shows his name, and the 4 renewals he's had on there). Then, as soon as I find a place (I live in NYC, so its gonna take me a while to get a place), I will move out. And I will mail the screengrabs to everyone he knows....including his immediate family. So, my soul mate is gone. I never thought ever he would do this to me. Question: I'm afraid of being alone, but I'm more afraid of infidelity. Should I stay or go? And do you have any other ideas of confronting him or anything. I'm desperate here and beside myself. The hurting is killing me every minute. Thanks guys. Link to comment
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