gungaden Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 Just before Christmas me and my wife (married 5 years together 13) came to blows over our relationship and it ended with me having to move out. This was not my choice but due to having two small children and my work commitments we agreed that would be best. She said that she didnt love me anymore and needed some space. We tried going out together but felt shut out and always ended up shouting. A little while later i found out that she had been seeing someone else that had snogged her and was giving her the attention that i apparently did not. This had been going on since before we split and she had been going and spending time with him at the weekends as i was only able to see the kids at the weekend. I was trying to get her to spend some time with me and we had a couple of good days but after each she would distance herself from me. It ended up with me having the kids one sat night at my parents. The kids were unwell and i had a bad night. She rang me in the morning and i shouted at her that i hated her. She asked me to come home (even though she doesnt want me to). I did this and she admitted to me that she has strong feelings for this man (or boy she is 31 he is 24). I think i can get over the fact that she was seeing someone else but she told me today that she is thinking about him alot but does want to try and make our marriage work. How can i win her love back i really need some help as i dont want to go through life with someone like that. I want to do all i can to win her heart back but dont know how.i just want her to let me back in but she wont and feel she is pushing me away. Im just trying to give her the attention that she said i never gave her but its hard eveytime i get knocked back. Link to comment
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