finallystrong Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 I made a post recently about how the girl I had sex with a few nights ago was basically being normal. Well she brought up something to me last night that I was disappointed in. She basically told me she has still been involved with her ex, and that we have to stop what we are doing because she will feel bad if it happens again... she told me she didn't feel bad having sex with me because when she asked what they were, in terms of being together or not, he said they were not actually together. And he said that if she were to be with someone else, he wouldn't care.... she said he is just saying that, and it's more of a defensive play because his mom doesn't like her. but basically, she said she doesn't want to get involved with anyone before she leaves for school. and she only would get involved with her ex because it's "familiar" and "comfortable", and also because he has no expectations of her and he doesn't care. she made a comment last night too that was "you finally got what you wanted..". Which sort of made me upset, because that's not ALL I wanted from her. A while ago, I actually wanted a relationship, not just sex. And supposedly, after sex she made a comment that she later confirmed she actually meant, which was "maybe you will be nicer to me now.." I don't know whether I should be upset or not, or if I should even stay her friend. I feel like she did this because she was trying to prove a point, but in the process she totally disregarded her and I. Any advice is helpful. Thanks. Link to comment
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