Ihatelove2008 Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 Ok guys, new here I'm 22 years old and am in MADLY in love with my exgf who I recently found out cheated on me. We started dating in highschool and were madly in love. We basically spent every single moment together for 6 years. She emotional cheated on me 2 years back and ever since then we had ups and downs. (mostly because of my insecurities) but we were still in love. I admit i was controlling sometimes, but I still let her see her friends and stuff. About 3 weeks ago i went through her phone and found sexting with her BOSS of all people, I confronted her about it and she admitted to having oral sex with him but she said it was only once! I was heartbroken. She balled her eyes out for a couple days, telling me what a mistake she made and how much she regrets it and how I was the best thing to ever happen to her. What is messed up is all throughout her affair with this guy she was so lovey, she always initiated holding hands kissing me telling me how much she is glad we are together! She even was straight out nice to my family too! I had no idea she was doing this behind my back but I forgive her I still love her! I made myself look like a fool after, basically begging her to come back to me (I dumped her right after i found out). She tells me now her life is in shambles, she is lost, that wasn't her at all and all this nonsense. She says she still loves me and wishes we could be together again but she can't right now? She wants to "figure herself out". I tried doing NC but relasped and saw her and talked to her after 3 days. Then I Just started it back up again yesterday, but again I called her today to bs. Another thing that is messing me up is I see her Facebook. She is acting like nothing happened at all. She is acting all happy and stuff. Why am I so dang distraught over this and she doesn't care? If I go NC will she contact me asking for me back? I loved her and I treated her so good when we were together! I know everyone is saying leave her, and I'm trying I just wanna know why she doesn't care like I do after 6 years. Link to comment
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