AnnaN Posted November 15, 2011 Share Posted November 15, 2011 So long story short, I got dumped less than 3 weeks ago. I really loved him and wanted to spend my life with him, for me it was the perfect relationship but he decided in one night that he wants to be alone. Since then, I can't sleep, eat, work, nothing! The only thing I have in my mind is that I want him back and I read all the time forums, articles, books about how to do this. I've never been so pathetic and desperate in my life and I feel ashamed of that... I was on Facebook, and although I never accept people that I don't know, I added the cousin of a friend of mine. And we talked for one hour and a half. It was nice to talk to someone new, even this way, I had never done it before, someone you don't know, someone who didn't know my problems like all my friends know so we keep talking about my ex all the time and I feel miserable. It's been 4.5 years since I last flirted and went on a date with someone, doing that even virtually, made me feel good and remember the days I was single and happy by myself. We also exchanged numbers, we may catch up for a coffee these days. I am not planning on dating anyone soon, and I don't want to have a rebound. I saw it as my first step to the single life again and I felt good for the first time after 3 weeks. Tomorrow I may be miserable again, but one day I won't. Link to comment
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