meowmix88 Posted November 11, 2011 Share Posted November 11, 2011 I had an ex who did this to me, so I'll say this: RUN! Run far far away! His last relationship before me was with a woman who he was on the verge of proposing to, but she broke up with him. He waited nearly a year and started dating again when he met me. Well, I was his emotional punching bag and he did to me all the things he claims she did to him. I say 'claims' because I only know his side of the story. When he dumped me, he said he wanted to be friends and still contacted me afterwards. Six months after the break up, we talked about going on dates and none of them materialized. He would shamelessly flirt with me, bring up old inside jokes, past good times but every time we were supposed to see each other something would come up. He just wanted to know that I still wanted him and had an effect on me. I ran into him on the street a couple of months ago and it was the same song and dance, but I am completely over him and have no desire to ever be with him again. It sounds like this man is playing with you for whatever reason. Maybe it's power? Maybe he's bored or maybe it's just because he feels like he can. But he is not acting like someone who loves and cares about you by playing these games. If he's not interested right now he should stay away until he's ready to really do something about it. Link to comment
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