Kind of frustrating

[maxima123]

So I know this girl. We are friends but I want more and can't stand every second being away from her. Problem is, she has a bf and doesn't feel the same way about me and it really does hurt... I know what you will say, "forget and move on," but I just can't do that when I love her so much? Every morning I wake up thinking about her and lately, everytime I do something for her, (bake a cake or give a card), she always says she can't come out to see me because she is studying and doesn't want distractions yet it frustrates me that seeing me can't take up 2min of her time while she can take a whole night off for her bf? I've at times, been at her house on a sat night giving a cake and talking to her mum while she is upstairs studying and doesnt even come down to say hi? I feel like I'm pushing a friend away but all I want is her and it's killing me? What do I do cause I can't just ignore her cause it hurts!!

[offplanet]

It's not that she hasn't got the time to come out and see you, she's giving you the clear message that she doesn't want all this attention you're showering on her. It would actually be a burden to her, seeing as she doesn't return your feelings. How can you even get away with giving her all this attention when she's got a bf?? It's not appropriate. Maybe she's too kind hearted to tell you. But she shouldn't need to spell it out. You should be able to work that out for yourself! The fact that you love her doesn't give you any rights over her whatsoever. She doesn't love you, you have to accept that fact. Anyway, you are going to drive her right away from you even as a friend, with your peristent unwanted attention! Sorry to be so blunt, but you are not getting it otherwise. This is all so wrong, to yourself and to her.

[maxima123]

What do i do then? Because I can't keep on feeling like this. It's been like 2 months and I'm always feeling * * * * about it? I would've thought it would go away after a couple of weeks.... Not the case