peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 well me and this girl have been broken for 8 months i went no contact for a few months then i sent her a text saying i missed her.my mistake i know. that was back in august she replied we started to catch up over text. a couple days later i sent her a message saying she is still the most beautiful girl inside and out. she replied im sorry you still hurt with our connection we could have the most beautiful friendship. so a few days later i replied this is my attempted at being friends. since then she texts me about once a week catching up sharing things we used to enjoy together. telling me she had to put down her cat which i was close to. but now i dont know what to do she has moved on life. i guess why im trying to be friends with her is away to reconcile and one day get back together. you have to start somewhere. anyways its really playing with my emotions. im want to go NC again how do i go about it? i guess im also worried if i do then i will loose my chance on getting back together. i just love the damn girl so much. Link to comment
Mustachio Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 If she was the one that broke up with you, and she seems like she has moved on, then believe me, you aren't going to miss out on any chances on getting back together by going NC. If she wants to get back together she will find a way to get in touch and make her intentions known. So... how to go about going back to NC. Just tell her. She already knows you arent at the same place she is, so let her know that you need more time before you attempt to be friends. I think its as simple as that. Dont worry about hurting her, just worry about doing waht you need to make yourself feel better. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 just sent her a goodbye text so NC begins and my healing starts Link to comment
peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 her reply was ok she understand if i ever change my mind give her a call. this hurts but i know its for the best. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 damn i feel like i have made a mistake Link to comment
Mustachio Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 You didnt make a mistake. You clearly werent ready to be her friend. You said that contacting her was a mistake, now you are saying that not contacting her is the mistake. Stick with it. Youll be back to yourself in no time. Link to comment
jordan5508 Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 Forget about your mistakes. Start NC, explain to her why you can't keep in touch with her (because it hurts you too much) If she wants to try again she will contact u. if not, move on and keep nc. good luck Link to comment
peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 thanks jordan your right i keep wanting to send her a message saying if you ever want to reconcile give me a call. even tho i have told her no more contact Link to comment
Melting Posted October 31, 2011 Share Posted October 31, 2011 What you did was the right thing, even though it feels like it isn't. You would merely only be torturing yourself if you stayed friends. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 just writing down my thoughts. this is the first time i really feel that its over. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted October 31, 2011 Author Share Posted October 31, 2011 its the now the day after and i have regret. Link to comment
imonlyhuman Posted November 1, 2011 Share Posted November 1, 2011 we all have regret. we have no idea if what we do/did/could do is a mistake. and we always second guess ourselves because things are magically better all of a sudden. keep sticking to NC. it's for the best. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted November 7, 2011 Author Share Posted November 7, 2011 thank every one for there advice im still NC its been a week. i have been thinking a lot about things and how they were things that i forgot. i guess in a way it was never meant to be i think she only loved me as a friend.she was with her previous boy friend for 3 years he broke her heart. she was only with me for a year and a half. she broke my heart twice the second time round was just a waste of time. i need to focus on those thoughts so that i don't keep hanging on. i also realized why i have been hanging on also is that im lonely i have been in this city for almost 2 years now. i dont know many girls theirs one i feel something could start but im not sure tho. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted November 17, 2011 Author Share Posted November 17, 2011 3 weeks going strong i have no temptation to contact her. im feeling better about things exercising heaps getting new jobs. writing lots of music the one regret tho is that after i sent her the NC message i said i f you ever want o reconcile give me a call argh damn sounded so needy . but meh Link to comment
peterepeat Posted November 18, 2011 Author Share Posted November 18, 2011 im feeling a bit horrible today just as im doing well i awake feeling sorry for myself. i have been having reoccuring dreams with her in it lately i guess telling me to let go. its bloody annoying it sucks that some one can have such a impact on your mental state. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted November 25, 2011 Author Share Posted November 25, 2011 almost a month of the old NC its going alright top of the world some days and others well i miss her but it will get easier i know just time. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted November 26, 2011 Author Share Posted November 26, 2011 damn dreams i haven't had dreams of her for ages but the last couple of nights. ive been having really peculiar dreams with her in it and feel quite affected by them. im seriously fed up of these emotion the constant thoughts about her. Link to comment
peterepeat Posted November 29, 2011 Author Share Posted November 29, 2011 last night hung out with some mates i left my exes stuff at my old place were one of these friends moved in. they said she was going to hang out with them on sunday but never showed up. then later in the night my friend goes i just got a really long message from my ex. then they start covering up changing the name and being really suspicious.i know i shouldn't care but i hate when people hide things from me. Link to comment
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