Beautifulugly Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 Me and my bf have been together on and off for a years now. Hes 27 & im 21. I love him with all my heart and would do anything for him. Weve been thur alot but weve left the past in the past. Hes come to clean to the fact that hes depressed, unhappy, knows who he wants to be but doesnt know how to get there. He doesnt have the will or power to change. When we were together at the beginning it was magical we rushed it moved in to fast and things starting falling apart. He has a 8 & 5 year old. I think now all of thr mistakes we made then have been faced and fixed except now it has hiy him hard. Everything the past the future the present. His ex wife of almost 10 years left him for drugs. Cheated. Abused him and even left the kids for him to keep as now he has full custody. Our beginning was beautiful no one has made me happier. I know the real him and thats y I stick around he has cheated. Has said horrible things and weve been physivslly apart for 4 months... Now that I know itd NOT ME idk what to do to help. Its hid midlife crisis and I hate to see him hurt.... Id take the pain away if I could. Id die for this kid. Love him till I die ........ But idk what to do. What not to do. How I can help. Has any man been thur this? What could anyone done differently? ...help me Link to comment
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