n4mele5s Posted October 30, 2011 Share Posted October 30, 2011 I was wondering if you guys can help me with this situation. It is going to be a very long story so if you have any questions feel free to ask me. So about 6 months ago, I met this amazing girl where I spend time to talk to and developed a relationship together. Unfortunately, she was in a relationship in the past where she was engaged with her ex but he left her cause he was not ready for it. His reasoning for that as we found out later on was that he was going through midlife crisis. She was heartbroken and left to the dead. Few months later I appeared and developed this connection with her. Sadly, her mother wants her to get back with her ex cause they have been through alot together for two years. She was pretty stress due to the decision she has to make. Being an idoit, I messaged her friend and asked her what I should do to make her feel better in this situation but her friend told her about everything. As a family oriented person, she chose family and I respect that. However, she still wants me to around and she still talks to me like how we use to talk when were in a relationship. For example, she uses " She even took the initiative to message me. All these things being said, the guy is living with her family in the same room. She continued on with the stress and this caused me pain to see her this way. So again, I asked the friend about how she is feeling. Unfortunately, this led to a miserable mistake ( I ADMIT IT) and her not talking to me. For the last time after seeing her being somewhat lovely dovely with the guy on facebook, I tried to have her answer my question which is if she really wants to be with the guy. Unfortunately, she said she has no choice and she is sticking with him. Then i told her that I should stop talking to her. All she said, go do what you got to do. Its been a week but it bothers me that she said she has no choice. Anyone want to help me and tell me why this is bothering me? Thanks Link to comment
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