Why does he feel like he can treat women this way?

[jadedbylove]

My ex was a jerk. He has no redeeming qualities whatsoever. He is a liar, cheat, addict and all-around loser. He played me for a fool, yet I stayed with him admittedly way too long. Even though we aren't together I wish I could expose him as this fake. He goes around pretending to be mr. Casanova. He charms the pants off women. Gets exactly what wants then throws them to the wayside. Most women are so oblivious to his manipulative ways. I feel responsible in some way like I can prevent or I should warn them. More importantly, I want to know why he feels like he can treat women like this continuously and get away with it. Most of us are good people and don't deserve it. It is selfish. Worst part it is, he has a daughter. Great example he sets.

[DylanNotorious]

Yes but you gain the upper hand, because if you meet someone else who has similiar traits/qualities as your ex, you will be able to pick up on the signs better. And therefore not go down the same path twice. So in a way, your better informed than most women on how to pick em.

 

And besides, your ex will get his just deserts in the end.

[Mesemene]

He does it because, well, it's gotten him what he wants for the most part - female attention. Until reality smacks him in the forehead, he probably won't change. That could come in the form of him having it bad for a girl who laughs in his face and walks off, a girl who dumps him while he still really wants her, or intense disappointment from his daughter or a mother or father figure. But he's going to have to feel real emotional pain more than likely to have much incentive to change his ways.

[Sim54]

Why did you go out with a man with no redeeming qualities?

What did you see in him?

[surgeon]

If you continue to obsess about him, then he keeps winning.

 

Think about something else, or someone else.

 

Then you win and he loses.

 

Even if he doesn't know it.

[Fudgie]

Wow, I hope the daughter isn't yours. What a burden to bear from such a loser, I doubt he supports her.

 

I agree with others, don't obsess. He probably wants you to do that. Some people are just soulless losers but it sounds like you kept getting sucked in because his charm was nice. Chalk it up to lesson learned.

[jordan5508]

Sounds like a real * * * * * * * .

 

Start no contact and move on. Accept the fact that he is a piece of crap and get on with your life.

 

You should feel sorry for him! He has a daughter and sounds like a real stupid person.

 

Don't even waste your time with this peasant. He will get what's coming to him. If you hate him so much then post his photo on link removed and tell everyone he has a small penis or something. Let your anger out in some way, but then move on.