thecynic Posted October 29, 2011 Share Posted October 29, 2011 Hi there, I met this guy online. It wasn't a dating site. It was a forum site similar to this one. We were regulars on it for about 4 years now. So, we know each other for quite awhile. We started chatting 8 months ago, one on one, through instant messaging and he came to visit me 2 times so far. He lives about 2.5-3 hours away. He has plans to get a job so he has gas money to visit me more regularly once he finishes his GRE. This will probably develop into a relationship. I like this guy. But I am really worried LDR won't work and I will end up dealing with a breakup again. Once he gets a job, we will be able to see each other once every 2 weeks which is fine. But after this year, he is planning to go to grad school much further away which means we will only see each other during Christmas break and summer and maybe a few times in between. On top of that, he never dated any other girls before me and so I worry that he would probably end up with a strong desire to see what else is out there. Me, on the other hand is more settled because I have already dated a few guys. I would much more prefer to not have to go through another painful breakup. I am very fragile emotionally. So far, he seems to be taking a very light approach to our relations. I don't think he has any plans for us in the future. I suspect that he only wants a girl and to get laid because he never had that. Link to comment
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