utopie Posted October 28, 2011 Share Posted October 28, 2011 Hi guys, You can find my whole BU story in my previous posts. My BF of 3 years (2 years living together) broke up with me a month ago because he as not sure he loved me anymore even though he deeply cares about me and considers me like family, because I was his first love and he needs to experience first dates again (he's 27 and never had a GF for more than 2 months, has never loved anyone. They would, and I quote him, "dump me whenever I was getting close to them"), thinks that we are going to en up in 2 different cities, is emotionally satisfied but not sexually anymore (I was not either lately and agreed with him we were not really making efforts) and as a consequence he is attracted to random girls. Anyway, the day of the BU he cried a lot, said he could not do it, that he was maybe making a mistake comforted him and said he was a great guy which made him cry harder as he adores so many things about me. I unfriended him, deleted his phone (which made him cry as he doesn't want me out of his life) but told him he could contact me if he felt the need to hear from me and that he was a great guy, that I would never hate him. Last time I saw him 3 weeks ago, the conversation started with "I think I made the right decision" and ended by "I don't know anymore, I need to thing about us". I went NIC for 3 weeks and he contacted me about my snowboard 2 weeks ago. He wanted to see me (without openly saying it) but I just couldn't face him and told him 3 times to drop it off before he actually did it. He sent me a text right after "Are things well" and I just answered "yep" Fast forward to today, I sent him a FB message (I unfriended him but have old messages): "I could not see you when you brought me back my snowboard because it would have been too hard for me. I miss you and us, some days are harder than the others. I hope you're well". It also shows all our history (I don't know how to delete those) with him basically sending me messages everyday "kisses sweet pea. I love you". It was this morning and he has not replied. I think I am going to forget about it. But do you guys think I had a "dignified" attitude? I don't want to pursue him. I felt like telling him the truth and also I felt like last time he wanted to see him I pretty much told him to never contact me again with my refusal. I'm not too sure but I am strong Link to comment
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