blueidealist24 Posted October 27, 2011 Share Posted October 27, 2011 Sorry if this sounds neurotic but I am new to online dating!! Yesterday this guy sent me a message asking me if I was free for coffee or drinks this weekend. He lives like 30-45 minutes away from me and we were chatting on Plenty of Fish and msn. I lied that I was going away this weekend (I actually have a huge zit and hope it is gone soon - lmao) but I said I wanted to meet the NEXT weekend if he is free. I know this was kind of bad, but if he saw the grotesque zit and a few other smaller zits I have I would never get a second date. I also asked him if he could come to my area since I didn't know if I was going to have a car to drive.. he used to come out to this area a lot to see his ex, he said in our conversation. Anyway, he never replied to my message. I'm not THAT concerned because it's only the next day, but I've seen him on. I think either.. a) he doesn't want to come all the way out to my town, up to 45 min away and I don't really blame him, or b) he doesn't plan as far as two weekends ahead and isn't going to answer until later - btw, was that wrong of me to put it off for two weeks? I really should have just gone on the day he asked, shouldn't I have, if I didn't want to get blown off? Crap! I was also a little scared since it would be my first meeting of someone I only talked to online.. He also posted this pic on his facebook that showed a girl's face that said 'facebook you' and a picture of a fat chick that said 'real you.' He's never seen me in real life so I know it's not about me. I'm not fat anyway. But I think that maybe he is talking to multiple people and meeting them and he recently met a girl who was fat in real life.. dating multiple people could be a good reason for not getting back to me fast, especially not setting up a meeting time far in advance. Also there's a post on his facebook complaining that he wasted his time and gas money going somewhere for the woman not to show up or something, a couple of weeks ago, making me think maybe he's NOT into driving 45 min to see me. Anyway, what do you think? Is this a blow off or should I just be more patient in waiting for a response? Next time I won't put off the 'meeting' unless I really have to. Link to comment
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