Madison_91 Posted October 26, 2011 Share Posted October 26, 2011 I've been with my boyfriend for a year and almost 2 months. I love him greatly, he's the first guy i've let touch me since i was raped but as of late we've had some problems. He's started talking living together and marrige in the future, which has made me try and picture that life. Before me, my boyfriend had a drinking problem and while it has gotten better i've grown increasingly annoyed when he turns into a drunk idiot and in fear of him returning to his previous problems i've told him i wont tolerate drinking anymore. he also has loser friends who are a terrible influence and i've asked he stopped hanging with them and to def. stop bringing me around then. I've also been pushing him to find a better job and move out of his small home town. He has said many many times that he really wants to make these changes for himself and he even decided to quit smoking but has started again which is a problem because i refuse to live with a smoker. He keeps falling back into bad old habits but we love eachother so much. the relationship is getting so hard. what do we do? I feel like i'm completely asking him to change Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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