lostforher Posted October 26, 2011 Share Posted October 26, 2011 I'm writing this thread because I'm really at a lost for what to do regarding my recent break up with my girlfriend. Any advice would be must appreciated... We have been seriously dating for the past 4 months, 2 of which we were together every day and inseparable, then she moved 3 hours away for school so we decided that we couldn't be without each other and that we would make it work. Before we started dating we were friends for years, best friends for the past year. When I say friends I truly mean we loved and cared about one another as much as two friends could.. She was dating someone else during the majority of our friendship, but we always had a thing for each other and felt a deep closeness unlike anything I've ever felt before. Our relationship was what most would call perfect, we never fought and still maintained that level of friendship we had before we starting dating, which was very important to both of us.. We told each other things we have never said to anyone else before, and we fell deeply in love. We also already knew each other well and trusted each other without doubt.. When she moved things went on the same way for another month or so, I would go visit her any chance I got and vice versa. The times we spent in each others presence were absolutely amazing and we couldn't get enough of it. We missed each other every second we weren't together. Our problems began when I started worrying about how we were going to keep it together until I got the chance to move to where she was. I became insecure and lost the confidence that she really loved me as much as I loved her. Which in hindsight should've been obvious to me, but I couldn't handle the distance.. We started having little fights about things that would've never bothered us had we still lived in the same place, and I mainly started them. She became annoyed and aggravated and said I was smothering her and that we spent more time talking about our problems than we did conversing about real things. The times I went to visit her still remained perfect, we were still just as happy and close as we had ever been. But the times apart became not so happy anymore. She eventually said that dating me "wasn't what she thought it'd be" and broke up with me. This came 3 days after I spent an entire week with her during which we still continued to be happy... She told me how in love she was with me and how she never only feels right when I'm there. So needless to say, I was confused when she ended it... I tried to reason with her and then eventually begged her to give us another shot because I'm so in love with her and truly believe we could be something worthwhile. In retrospect I shouldnt have reacted to the breakup that way but I wasn;t thinking clearly..I know she still loves me and still has feelings for me even though she won't admit it, we were just too close and needed each other too badly for it not to matter now. So my question is this, what do I do now? Is there any hope of getting her back into my life? I'm prepared to do whatever it takes.. Link to comment
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