mantraflix Posted October 26, 2011 Share Posted October 26, 2011 Hi everyone. so i have been with my boyfriend for three years. ive never been in love with him however i have consodered him my best friend. the only reason why i decided to keep this relationship going is because i got pregnant. before and during the pregnancy, hewas a great man. he supported me and lived me. but once i gavw birth, he turned all his attention to our child. he stoped caring for me and we stoped going out. i should mention we have 11 years age gap. all ge wants to do is is stay in a watch tv an do nothing else. i also feel that,because of our gap, that im just a cool aunt to our son. as soon as i try to dicipline him, he goes over me and punishes our son. he decides what he eats and how much. he decides what he wheres and all the little things. its like all i was good for was to give birth to him. Also. hes become a very controling man. he takes all of my paycheck leaving me a bit to pay some of my credit card and my phone bill. see, this would not bother me if we went out even just once a month alone or as a family. he does work and does lay attention to our aon.. i just seem to be the last thing on hjs mind. he says he loves me, but he seems more in love with the fact of having the perfect family. its been killing me for a while and i have talked to him about it on various occasiobs. he seems to only change for a week or so only to get bak to his old self.. i have left him in the past. only to have hkm threatening to kill himself or try to take our son away (saying hed use my past as a drug abuser to help him.. i haavent used in three yearrs) and lately. i been struggling to leave him again... not wanting to go through all that again and having his family turning him against me again... so ive been doing very bad things.. cheating on him because i need to fill this void.. please do not judge.. it started recently and i feel bad for him im just very unhappy and i dont know how to leave him!! can someone help me please?!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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