Tomuch2hope Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Apologies, if this has been asked 100's of times before. I have a plan to win to try my ex back. We're NC for a few weeks now and I plan on keeping that way for another while yet. But I'd still like to have some sort of game plan in place for if and when the time comes when we make contact. See, I have a tiny piece of hope of getting back together, because my ex broke up with me because she just got burnt out trying to maintain the relationship and I can empathise with her because I got burnt out trying to maintain things in work.. (different scenario's, but both would feel like your banging your head against the wall). In a short space of time I have done all the things I told my ex I would do when we were together. I couldn't / wouldn't have done these things without the 'kick in the ass' I recieved when she broke it off as my focus was directed elsewhere. I had become entreached before that, that I was unable to see above the parapet and that kick in the ass, opened my eyes to what I was doing. I really believe her reasons for breaking up were the truth and there was no GIGS involved, but before I break NC, how to I explain, show or whatever that the thought of us not sharing our lifes together was the wake up call I needed and now that I know how my actions caused to feel hurt enough to end things I will never allow myself to do that again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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