Madison_91 Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 I know that when you love someone you are supposed to accept them for their flaws but i'm afraid my boyfriend of one year has two flaws I'm having a hard time accepting; Drinking - because he used to have a problem and smoking - it smells gross, taste gross, is bad for our health and is expensive. In the beginning I didn't say much about his smoking but then he decided to quit and I told him how happy I was about it. at the time we were talking about moving in together and since he first quit I told him I will not live with a smoker. well everytime he'd get drunk and have a smoke i'd freak out and I smelled smoke on him last night and got him to admit he smoked. it really hurts whenever he smokes because he knows how much i hate it and it makes me wonder if he even cares enough to live with me. How do I handle this? I hate getting mad at him for it but i just can't stand it. its almost a deal breaker. Link to comment
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