mimerelli Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Hi, Theres an issue which my partner and I can't see eye to eye on. I really need to know if i'm over reacting or if i'm within my right be be upset. We've been together for 5 years, living together for 2. Generally we are very happy together and I love him like nothing else. I worked a night shift on saturday night and came home on sunday morning to find he wasn't there but his car was. I figured he's gone out but his phone was off and there were no messages/notes to say where we was. He came back at around 3pm (I had been very very worried and not slept after my shift) on sunday and said he'd been drinking at a strangers house - and at that point I was angry he hadnt contacted me (no battery) but would get over it. Long story short I found out this 'stranger' was a girl he'd met at in a club (which is on the street we live on, so could have come home) and they'd gone back to her house together to carry on drinking. He says nothing happened and I believe him. However, it still doesnt sit right with me and in some way I still feel betrayed. Am I over reacting or is it right of me to ask him not to do it again? He doesnt see what the problem is and doesn't appreciate me 'telling him off'. Im very confused and could really do with some impartial advice. Is it ok for a man/woman to spend the night with the opposite sex drinking when in a long term relationship or is it somehow morally not right? I'd like to hear from men and women. Mature answers only. Thanks Mimerelli Link to comment
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