Things going well, what's the next step?

[Mharris]

So I've been seeing this girl for about a month and we've hung out 6-7 times. A couple real dates and then the rest just hanging out for a couple hours hot tubbing or watching Big Bang Theory. Early on I was probably pushing a bit more than I should have, but it worked out and she has started calling me to do stuff now too. I'm playing it super safe now, and haven't kissed her yet, though I think she might have wanted me to the last couple of times. The next thing I'll do is ask her out for a real dinner and activity date, and try to kiss her at the end, but where from there? I'm happy to let things go naturally, and I've heard that after you kiss, at least where I'm from is when things become exclusive-like. Should I talk to her about it?

[Captain Obvious]

Have sex with her

[Mharris]

I'm actually waiting to have sex until I get married so that wouldn't work out so well, but thanks

[brechild]

So I've been seeing this girl for about a month and we've hung out 6-7 times. A couple real dates and then the rest just hanging out for a couple hours hot tubbing or watching Big Bang Theory. Early on I was probably pushing a bit more than I should have, but it worked out and she has started calling me to do stuff now too. I'm playing it super safe now, and haven't kissed her yet, though I think she might have wanted me to the last couple of times. The next thing I'll do is ask her out for a real dinner and activity date, and try to kiss her at the end, but where from there? I'm happy to let things go naturally, and I've heard that after you kiss, at least where I'm from is when things become exclusive-like. Should I talk to her about it?

 

It sounds like you have a nice balance going on. Girls enjoy confident men. Just give her a smooch at the end of the date. If she's feeling it, she'll kiss you back. Sounds like she is just waiting for you to make your move & if she doesn't want a kiss from you then she probably isn't interested. Either way, you will find out where you stand. Good luck & update us!!