ellebellee Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 Hi, I'm new here but I thought I'd ask for some advice. Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 3 months ago. We've never really had a conversation since and neither have I seen him in person, even though I easily could as I live near him and he studies at a college near mine. It seemed like he was doing his best to avoid me completely after we broke up. Every time I arranged a time to meet up to return each others belongings, (which was only the real contact on my behalf) he always agreed, but then he never followed through. He did this about 3 times. He also deleted me off Facebook a couple of months ago too. It has probably been the darkest 3 months of my life. I'm sure most of you know that horrendous pain that comes with a break up of you and your true love. It sounds awfully cheesy, but I really believe this guy is my soulmate. He even has admitted that the fact he moved to the UK was because fate brought him to me. (Yuck, I know I know he believed that I was the one for him too. So, I haven't really spoke to him for a long time. I miss him like crazy. It seems like everyone I know seems to bump into him but me. My best friend runs into him a lot. Even my mother sat next to him on the bus and they had a discussion about me, where he asked her how I was and things of that nature. I always run into his brother and his friends, but never him. I really want to speak to him, I really want us to get back together. I've never played the desperate or needy card when the relationship ended and heck, neither will I start now, but I don't know what to say. He is a really stubborn guy. He knows his own mind and is one of those people who make a decision and stick with it. He recently re-added me back on Facebook which shocked me but I haven't accepted him yet. What do I do? What do I say? We both had out faults during the relationship, I wasn't a perfect girlfriend, we did argue over pointless things, but looking back I can't believe how I used to act. I've changed completely and I really want him to know this. I've changed my whole outlook on life. So if I do initiate contact, what can I say? And how could I maybe nudge him into initiating contact with me too? Please help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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