missymiss23 Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 My friend was telling me about this guy she works with who is single. From what she told me it's someone I'd be interested in going out with. She told him about me and he seemed interested also. I added him on facebook. But my question is should I send him a message on facebook or should I wait and let him contact me first? I wouldn't even know what to say to him to start off without sounding too forward. Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 Whoever friend requests a person, should make the first move. Otherwise, why did you friend request him? Link to comment
Furbys Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 Dylan is right. Why add someone if you wont make the first move to start a conversation? Just start a conversation by being simple 'Hi, how are you?' Link to comment
missymiss23 Posted October 23, 2011 Author Share Posted October 23, 2011 I'm alittle afraid to be the one that makes the first move. I don't have a very good track record with guys and I seem to do all the wrong things. Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 'Hi, how are you?' This is the best way to start a conversation with him. If he doesn't reciprocate, then no harm done. Link to comment
raton44 Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 AGREED...you make the first move since you added him Whoever friend requests a person, should make the first move. Otherwise, why did you friend request him? Link to comment
Brightest Dark Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Yep, send him a message. I hate people who add me and then never speak. In fact, I might go and delete some people off my friends list who did that right now! lol. Link to comment
missymiss23 Posted October 25, 2011 Author Share Posted October 25, 2011 well okay. so I did it!!! He was on facebook chat and so I said "Hey! How's it going?" and let the conversation go where ever it went. lol we didn't talk for very long, however, he said "Amber said she might have a little get together soon, so hopefully I'll get to meet you in person. Have a good night." And that's how we ended the conversation. (Amber is my friend's name.) I know it's only by computer, but he seems like a person who is easy to talk to. So I hope my friend comes through for me!! Now the next thing I'm worried about is my friend told me he's tall (as in 6'2). I'm only 5'3, 5'6 with heels. LOL Has anybody been in a "vertically challenged" relationship? lol Link to comment
blueidealist24 Posted October 25, 2011 Share Posted October 25, 2011 Lol height shouldn't really matter that much! Link to comment
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