crl621 Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 So I kind of have a crush on this guy on my Facebook friends (I'll call him 'Bob'). I've met him briefly a few times (long story short: a coworker tried to set me up with one of his (my coworker's) friends who had a crush on me, and the friend happened to be friends with X. So anyway, I wasn't interested but I kept running into Bob at random times- pretty much at both of my jobs that I had afterward. He recognized me I think and we talked for a few minutes. Anyway, after the last time I ran into him, I requested him on Facebook, and hoping he didn't think it was creepy, I just sent a quick thing with it saying how maybe we could be friends, since we kept running into each other. After that, I just forgot about it, cause I noticed he had a girlfriend. But a week ago, it said he was single, so I thought maybe it might be an opportunity just to get to know him a bit and try to talk to him. We've never talked on facebook, but he's "liked" a couple of my posts. I've never "liked" any of his or commented. I'm really shy (and to be honest, terrified of rejection). I don't seem to do well trying to initiate conversation with guys I don't know are interested. And honestly, I don't even know if he remembers me and I kind of have a feeling I'm not his type So the insecure part of me is like "No, do not embarrass yourself. Just forget it." But another part of me kind of wants to try to at least talk to him or comment on his post one day. Problem is, he doesn't post much, and the last post was about how women are horrible (because of his ex-gf cheating). I figured it was best not to comment on that lol. A couple of my friends suggested I try talking to him on Facebook chat, but the thought of that REALLY scares me. Anyway, does anyone have any suggestions? You can be honest, I just would appreciate some advice. I really don't want to make an idiot out of myself or sound desperate. Thanks! Link to comment
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