knightNshiningarmor Posted October 23, 2011 Share Posted October 23, 2011 My wife and I's son was born on August 30th so he is almost 2 months old now. In the time between my wife and I have had sex once. In the last few days she has also decided to stop taking the birth control she was on, understandably so because she felt it was hindering her milk production. We both hate having sex with condoms but I know I will make do I am hoping she will...assuming we ever have sex again. I am trying to be patient and that is what she is asking of me but its difficult. For the first time in our relationship I am dreaming about being with other women, thats never happened before. If we talk about the lack of sex she gets depressed that she can't satisfy my needs and it is very difficult to talk about. On top of it all I have a very high sex drive. I would be happy about three times a week and satisfied with once a week. But once every two months? Its less about the physical act of sex and more about the lack of intimacy. I feel like our lives are turning into a routine and there is no desire for one another. Instead of being my wife I feel as if she is my sons mother. It has only been two months I want to give her more time but at what point is being patient being naive. Link to comment
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