bdbmwer Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Hey, so its a little over a month post breakup. the relationship only lasted 2 months. I went NC(announced) for a week broke it for a week and then went back to NC(unnanounced) up until our recent convo. During NC i got myself back, became more confident then ever, look better than ever, reflected on what made our relationship fail in the first place, and hung out with her friends out at clubs probably a little more than i should have. anyways on the 20th I texted her to clear the air and let her know I wasnt hanging out with them to make her jealous or anything . she replied with " well its annoying cause you always go out with them when i dont. Its like ur hiding from me." so I took this as my Q and just told her " I guess it just happens like that. they ask and i agree to go." and then suggested we meet after class on monday for smoothies which we always used to do together. During NC she met with me once(when it got broken),texted me twice and called me. All of the latter were ignored and she also displayed other traits that showed she still had feelings such as jealousy and she used jealousy in class too. Therefore I think i gave her enough time to miss me and think theres something there. SO, on our first meeting do i set boundaries such as "were hanging out as exs not friends" or do I just treat it like any other person , speak freely and have a good time laughing and joking.how serious if at all should this be? Is there anything in particular I should or Shouldnt say or do besides the obvious begging crying or generally being negative Link to comment
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