Robin2904 Posted October 22, 2011 Share Posted October 22, 2011 Hey guys. I'm basically having a pretty hard time with feeling lonely. I know everyone feels loneliness, but it was NEVER a problem for me. I've always been used to it. I'm an only child, no other kids in my family my age, always considered myself a 'loner' sometimes I would even opt to be by myself instead of being around people. I like my 'me' time, I always have. Recently though, I find that I don't like being alone as much. I'm always wanting to hang out with my friends (Don't have too many close ones, my best friend has a boyfriend who takes up most of her time...) so it's like I'm stuck dealing with it 95% of the time. I also have NEVER felt this NEED for another person before. I still ache for my ex (It's been about 10 months since we were together) and it's really frustrating. I hardly ever get attached to people like that. Even for me for the most part loss of friendships have been very easy to get over. I've never in my life felt like I NEEDED another human being and it's scary. Don't get me wrong I've made a lot of progress but the loneliness, and the longing for him has really been scary for me, especially after almost a year. I'm having a hard time dealing with it these days. I've never in my life felt like I needed someone, like a peace of me was missing with out them in my life- not to this extent....he was my first love though, pretty much my first everything. I just hope I don't always feel this longing for him Mostly just venting. Wondering how others have dealt/are dealing with this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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