Lukkien Posted October 21, 2011 Share Posted October 21, 2011 Hello ladies/gentlemen, I'm a guy who has met a wonderful girl. Over the course of a couple of months we grew quite close together and we've made love a number of times. I thought this woman would be someone who I'd spend at least a big portion of my life with, though I never expressed those emotions. Then she ignored me for a couple of weeks. I'm unsure why, but I thought maybe I had done something wrong so I didn't push it. We talked again and she told me she doesn't love me, but instead loves her ex still and it didn't feel the same. Gutted. I was unsure how to deal with this that day. I remained calm and collective throughout our conversation because I was at a loss for words. The next day I removed her from Facebook and sent her a message that I had to deal with this and that I still considered her a friend. She never replied to that message. Now I'm wondering if I've made a huge mistake in cutting her off from my life for the time being. She lives in a different city, so we won't bump into each other. For some reason I have the feeling that if I hadn't done that, the chance of us eventually working out would've been higher. I feel like an idiot for doing something so abruptly. Moreover, how do I establish contact again with her? I'd be lying if I said I wanted to be her friend. I want her as my girlfriend. (I'm sorry if this is the wrong board for this) Link to comment
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