PrettyGood Posted October 21, 2011 Share Posted October 21, 2011 BEFORE: His ex was dumped because of me. So now we have LDR and we're a couple not that long ago. In the beginning emotions just burned for both of us. We had tons of s.x and spent our time greatly. In the beginning we corresponded a lot, but he never put any effort to make a live video/audio chat with me. So winter holiday was coming and he bought me plane tickets to spend 2 winter weeks with him. He told about me (his new gf) to his parents and asked if he can present me to them when I come. I agreed. I thought it was very nice. Actually 3 days ago were so extremely happy about this idea! AFTER: Then he added his dumped ex to his friendlist on the social website. I asked him why and what's happening. He said "No worries, everything is just fine between us" (me and him) but he said that she tried to commit suicide. Also told me that a day ago he was drinking with her at his house, trying to sort it our why they broke up and he told her that he will NEVER EVER be with her again, cause she's making only problems to him. In those days he didn't reply me to any of my letters or sms. Finally I saw 2 days of NC from him. So I wrote yesterday "Is everything alright?" and he replied "Yes! ". For 1 week all of his answers length was from 1 word to 1 sentence (not longer). After he dumped his ex, she was contacting me all the time and threatened, but now she doesn't contact me at all and I'm suspicious for that. He says that he fixed everything for us and that everything is just fine now. MY INNER WORRIES: I didn't want to make any conclusions so I decided to do NC thing. I began to feel that they're definitely doing something behind my back, but I don't want to look that 'crazy paranoid gf'. My biggest worry is that now he probably has 2 girls (me and his ex) in his life and everyday I awake, I'm afraid to open my email and find some "good-bye" letter. I decided to do NC until my flight day comes. If he doesn't write me anything until that day - I will dump him and not go anywhere. I know we talked about this guy a lot of times and you said he doesn't worth a dime, but somehow I just don't know if I'm too paranoid and he just feel that he shouldn't worry about me at all or do we really have serious issues? Link to comment
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