SillyGirl1 Posted October 21, 2011 Share Posted October 21, 2011 Hi all, I guess the first time I really STOPPED trusting the boyfriend (of 2 1/2 years) was when I snooped through is phone. His family is from a different town that the one we live in so he goes to visit "regularly." It has been two and a half years NOW that we have been "dating," or, living together. He went to visit his family in March. He was there for one weekend. He has about 489349237974291 friends who live there. I asked him if he got to see any of them while he was there, he said "No, none at all, I just stayed at my folks house, hung out with them and my sister and her baby came over and I got to see them, it was quiet and nice." Well, I snooped... I saw text messages in his phone from a girl named ______ The transcript read, "Where are you at?" - him "I'll be there in a bit, sit in the back, put your beers on my tab" - her "Okay." Then another set said, "It was great getting to come pick you up from the park, I loved smoking with you!" - her "It was great to see you, as always." - him. That is when the trust was broken, I haven't recovered. Is it normal not to have recovered from such a bastard move? I feel weak, insecure, and jealous... Link to comment
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