Why should I do with this guy???

[Lordreyna18]

So Ive know this guy for a while met him over a year ago when I lived where he currently lives, but left about 8 months ago to come back home, we live over four states away from each other and I would talk to him sometimes and then stop even when I was in a relationship he still wanted to talk to me even asked me to move in with him without dating first, so I told him I'll go for a weekend first and see where it goes from there... He offered to buy a plane ticket for me but I turned it down I rather go on my own even thou he is the one who wants me out there, the problem is I'm SUPER interested in him but I don't want to scare him away even though he's been chasing me for a year, and I'm afraid I'll fall for him too fast, because I wear my heart on my sleeve and I love the feeling of being in love but damn I'm scared to get hurt because my last bf hurt me bad so give me advice pleeeease!!! I'm seeing him this weekend. Sorry what should I do with this guy???

[Dubb]

Hmm.. sounds kinda dangerous. it also sounds like you know the answers to all this.. Are you even over your old relationship or are you open this new guy will take that pain away?

[cereza]

Do you know his family? or friends? it is dangerous if you don't know how he is but if you know him and his family/friends then I think you should give him a chance but try not to be so into him (which I know is hard but try being very busy) so u won't be very hurt if it doesn't work but also if you don't give it a chance then u will wonder what would it have been like and that will be worst that getting hurt in my opinion.