Grap_drink Posted October 20, 2011 Share Posted October 20, 2011 Well it's been 4 years since I've been in a relationship or even went on a date with a girl and believe me when I say I've tried it all. It got so tiring that I gave up for a while now and every now and then it hits me on how lonely I feel I am. I'm young, 19, and incredibly confused. I go to school full time working on my B.S in Structural Engineering, work full time and make over $2000.00 a month (that's pretty good to me * if you pay only $600.00 rent and college is paid for), training to be an air force officer, live on my own in a nice place, with a roommate and just whole bunch other things not to sound arrogant but proud of. Sadly even with all these accomplishments it depresses me that I can't even get to one date with a girl. Even all my friends are confused about it; they kind of look at me like I'm hopeless. I made a lot of friends that are girls and they all say I'm cute, funny, and that other stuff I'm thinking has to be a lie because this honestly doesn't make any sense. I'm doing the whole wait for her to come around thing and to be honest I had closer luck when I actually approached women. So what's a guy to do if nothing works? I thought about it so much now that I thought woman look for guys like me or atleast have an interest to want to hangout. Really I'm asking what would you do in this, I've tried hard to play it off like it doesn't bother me to people but it honestly does. * Link to comment
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