Lifelesson Posted October 19, 2011 Share Posted October 19, 2011 I moved late last winter out of state for a job I didn't have to take. I just wanted the career advancement. In the process, I broke up with my girlfriend because I wasn't planning on living anywhere near where we were living in the future and I didn't see how the relationship could work because I didn't think we'd been together long enough to ask her to move for me. It seemed like the logical choice to me but she was heartbroken. I felt and feel terrible about it. She has since started dating another guy. I have dated others as well but not as seriously as her. I regret breaking up with her terribly as there was no problems in the relationship, but I didn't see how it could ever develop into more. We kind of got back together for a couple days but I still couldn't commit. Well, I have since decided if it's possible, I want to move back to where we were living but at the same time I am still in love with her. I want to tell her if things don't work out with the new guy I want to try again. I'm meeting other people myself but nobody else compares. She was the first girl I've dated seriously, and I just had a lot to learn about a good relationship. At the time we were dating she said she didn't know how she could live without me, so I don't know how she could go on and date one of my friends. Link to comment
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