Heartbrokn1979 Posted October 19, 2011 Share Posted October 19, 2011 Hi all, So my now ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago after being together for almost 2 years! She first said she needed a "break" which started about 5 weeks ago - she said she needed time and space to decide where we going and want she needs / wants - not only for her but for her daughter of 7 years old from a previous marriage. I struggled to initially deal with this for the first 2 weeks and did try contacting her to "sort things out" - this needless to say didn't work causing the actual break-up! But the last 3 weeks have been alot better and I haven't really contacted her. She then started sms / calling me - just being polite; asking how i am etc and speaking about her work etc. She then visited me and we spoke a little about us and I then found out she is terribly worried about the affect of her relationship with me and my "non-commitment" after 2 years (I hadn't asked her to move in or to get married etc - and she sees this as non-commitment - despite actually being completely in love and fully committed to her) on her daughter and also told me that her ex-husband dates and breaks-up with woman causing her daughter to be very confused!! She basically doesn't want her daughter being introduced to men / woman and confusing her!! This past week her daughter became ill and ended up in hospital - and my ex then contacted me daily; in fact couple times a day - almost like we used to chat!! This is all confusing me - I want to be there for her and show her she doesn't have to take this all on "alone" and that I am completely committed to her - but how without looking desperate (even if i am desperate to get her back)!! I really dont know what to do anymore - I try not contacting her; but when she contacts me it gives me hope!! I really do love her and would love her back in my life!! PLEASE HELP ME - WHAT DO I DO TO GET HER BACK???!!! Link to comment
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