bdbmwer Posted October 19, 2011 Share Posted October 19, 2011 So im going to skip all the relationship details but basically weve been broken up roughly 4 weeks. Ive been doing great and acting and BEING nothing but happy around her and away from her. When I started getting back on my feet I went to the club with my guys and ran into my exs friend whom pulled me upstairs to dance. from that night on weve become party buddies going out all the time together and with her gf's and even mild intimacy. Often times her friends happen to be my exs BEST friend and her other small circle of friends but this is never my intention it just seemingly happens. Since all this ive also been in NC for like 13 days and my ex has been texing me, called me once, called me and asked me to meet up(which I did) and even got her friends(the ones i happen to run into sometimes) to try to pry into my life.she also talks loudly and excessively flirty to guys in our class in an attempt to make me jealous. Anyways now that that broad overview is done Fast forward to last night. I met up with my party friend, my exs best friend( shes still is a fan of me and wishes me and my ex would reconcile), and 2 of my ex's other friends. i had NO CLUE it would be all of her friends but none of them were opposed. Im not hanging out with them to spite my ex im genuinely just looking to have a good time. Anyways the second i get there my exs best friend tells me to look at a photo and its of her and my ex making out.also noteworthy is this girl is still my fb friend and she was totally not into the kiss like pulling away while my ex was all about it. anyways i just replied with a "hmmm" and she proceeded to tell me this was last night whatever she was trying to accomplish here idk. I found out through my party friend that my ex is not mad at her for hanging out with me but is upset that i hang out with her friends. Also the makeout photo was uploaded to fb is she trying way too hard to make me jealous or is she just trashy? Im not trying to brag just trying to provide info but i kissed her one best friend, dirty danced with alot of hand roaming with my ex's best friend(initiated by her hands), and was being come onto hard from my party friend. Am i treading dangerous waters? I truly am just looking for a good time and am in NO WAY actually intending to make my ex jealous and isnt that what everyone preaches that to get your ex back you need to be in this state of mind where you just dont care? or should I stop hanging out with them because its causing my ex to resent me and is this hurting my reconciliation chances or could it actually be helping it?(not pining just merely curious) Also coming back wasted at wafflehouse her best friend asked me to make a status and I was about to put "waffle house with (my nickname)" and she goes no no you cant put that (ex's name) will get pissed. i was like why? and shes like she just will be very mad. So im presuming she still obviously cares a lot and they all tell me my ex still likes me and has feelings for me.My problem is this given all these clues and her constantly initiating contact should I possibly answer her next phone call even though shes unoffically seeing this guy that sort of wedged into our relationship? From what I hear her feelings are fading for him already and things just are not going well because he treats her like crap. Ive always heard to be there when their new thing goes south on many articles ive read about girls who jump into another relationship. So given that all these things are coming together at once and im presumably in the right state of mind and have had a period of NC is now the time to act? Sorry if all the nicknames were confusing. Thanks for your input good or bad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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