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Hi Autumnleaves,


I see it as 'No longer grieving for the person.' An absence of pain. Having made my peace, I may experience subtle feelings of love and affection on the rare occassions they cross my mind.


So yes, I think you can both love some-one and be completely over them. It's the absence of pain that signals you are over them. Not the absence of love. Having said that I too have ex's who I have little respect for and would cross the road to avoid, to this day.


I have both types. The ones I feel random affection for and the ones where I grimace at the memory. I'd say I'm over all of them as I don't experience real hurt about those situations any more & they never cross my mind without an external prompt.



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