superfluousme Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I've generally doing okay for the past 3 weeks but last night I started getting pretty down. It's been 3 weeks since she went from the i miss you's I can't live without you in my life to finding another guy almost instantly. Today she changed her facebook picture to a picture of them. (I know I shouldn't have looked) It hit me pretty hard. I feel like everything she said in the end was a lie. I havent heard from her in 3 weeks. I've been NC completely. But it doesn't really matter. after 1.5yrs together I guess it only took a week to forget me. I guess i never really meant anything to begin with. I hate this crap. I just wish it would fail and she would realize that we actually had something. I'm not a bad looking guy, but this guy is better looking than me, really thin.. What he sees in a 5 foot 180lb girl is beyond me. Guess it really is over, and now I have to live with the lies at the end in bewilderment... Funny a couple weeks prior to the breakup she was talking about suicide and stuff and now she's as happy as can be. Doubt I'm even a thought in her mind now.... so much for "I hate sex, i just dont like it." "I wish I had time to work on us" "I don't have time for a relationship"... all lies?? Is it still a rebound...? Not really sure theres a second chance now. I know there was love, hell a few days before getting into a relationship with "hes just a friend" she told me she still loved me and cared for me... was even chasing me a bit while I was no contact for the first week and a half fter the split, but then she got into a full relationship with this guy. all seems so hopeless now. so much for "lets take things slow, I still want to be with you i just dont have time for a relationship right now" Why do girls always lie???? The fact the breadcrumbs immediately stopped once she found "hes just a friend, this isnt the end we still have a chance" really makes me believe there is no second shot. I thought after 3 weeks things would be easier... But feeling so completely replaced makes this so much harder. Shoot me. Link to comment
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