daking123 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Ok me and my girlfriend has had this on/off relationship for a year and 8 months. I found out she was talking to the boy over the summer so i confronted her and ask her she said "yes" well after i found out i did NC then a week later she came crawling back with im sorry it was a mistake. Then a month later she goes to the guy again but then a week later she said sorry again. It makes no sense. She gets mad when i talk to girls that i have nothing for...... Then 2 weeks ago we was at football game she had his number written on her face. so i sat beside her texting girls, and she gets mad and " goes really why are you texting girls when im right here" my reply "why do you got his number on his face" later on that night i lost my cool with her and cussed her out and old her how i felt, i did say some hursh things, and she use them harsh things as an excuse that i've changed and i really havent. Sunday she saw some girl call me boo on facebook, so she messaged the girl and was like "what the * * * * thats * * * * ed up you called him boo" but shes talking to somebody, and she said she hates me and dont want me in her life but she always gets pissed when theres something related to me. We did have a 20 minute convo that same night..... Do she like this boy? to me she knows his not me, so she tries to keep me around, right now im doing NC, do you think thatll be good. I blocked my facebook so nobody would know what im doing, do you think it will get to her and make her think. What do you think does she really hate me or she just pissed. When people ask if she really hates me she say yeah but they also say if she did she wouldnt acknowledge what i do... I really do love her. What do you think is going on with her from ur view. and what should i do Link to comment
daking123 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Share Posted October 18, 2011 Anybody???????? Link to comment
Mesemene Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 It sounds like you guys are way too caught up in playing head games with each other for much of a relationship. She's back and forth with another guy, you make her jealous texting other girls. She gets jealous and PO'ed. Have you tried sitting down and just talking, instead of just reacting to each other??? Link to comment
daking123 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Share Posted October 18, 2011 She claims she hates me and she's PO'ed at me. Not face to face but we had a 20 minute phone convo about everything. Her tone was just angry and everything that came out was negative. If you know her she says thing when she's mad. But idk, i did say two harsh things to her. I had married somebody on facebook(but me and my ex hadnt talk for at least 2weeks) so i didnt think it bothered her. but as soon as she saw it she texted me cussing me out. I just ignored her and been ignoring her since Link to comment
Mesemene Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 Sounds like you guys are as volatile together as oil and fire... IMO you're better off apart - you seem to end up provoking reactions from each other, even if you're not trying to. How old is she? Link to comment
daking123 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Share Posted October 18, 2011 We just have our moments, she shows sign she still care but shes just pissed. shes about to be 17 we've been on/off 2 years Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 She claims she hates me and she's PO'ed at me. Not face to face but we had a 20 minute phone convo about everything. Her tone was just angry and everything that came out was negative. If you know her she says thing when she's mad. But idk, i did say two harsh things to her. I had married somebody on facebook(but me and my ex hadnt talk for at least 2weeks) so i didnt think it bothered her. but as soon as she saw it she texted me cussing me out. I just ignored her and been ignoring her since How do you marry someone on Facebook? Link to comment
daking123 Posted October 18, 2011 Author Share Posted October 18, 2011 its like what everybody does just for fun. my ex isnt even my friend on there she just goes looking around on my page, thats why i just deactivated it... but its in your account thingy Link to comment
Mesemene Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 It's like a SIMS app, heart. I don't use FB myself - but my daughter does. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 It's like a SIMS app, heart. I don't use FB myself - but my daughter does. Thanks, Mes. With all of this new technology, I seem to be out of the loop. :surprise: Link to comment
daking123 Posted October 20, 2011 Author Share Posted October 20, 2011 Okay so I havent talked to her in a week or 2. But she randomly texted me 2 days ago in a form to try and have a conversations. But i ignored her... Whats does this mean, was i right to ignore her Link to comment
ILYx3 Posted October 20, 2011 Share Posted October 20, 2011 Well she keeps saying sorry. meaning she doesnt know what shes doing is wrong and she will keep doing it again and again, talking to that guy. I think u better ask her stuff like if she keeps doing stuf like these, the relationship will end. cus its not worth wasting time on someone like that. Link to comment
daking123 Posted October 21, 2011 Author Share Posted October 21, 2011 Yeah we was on/off going on 2 years in december...... but she had me blocked on faebook then unblocked me. then she text me from friends number but i never reply..... i think the nc is the best....... if yall knew us we got voted the cutest couple in h.s but i think we just got carried away and this could be a learning lesson... because when we first started dating i had left her for somebody else but she came back and we wnt for a year and some change.... i talked to the dude he said he dont have anything for her... so usually she'll come crawling back and when she do i'ma just put my foot down Link to comment
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