sunwar Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 I wrote about this somewhere else around here but still ... So: she: 25yo, has the same BF for 9 years; relationship is pretty ok but she is not in love; she felt in love with me about march this year, we work together, we spent lots of time together and got to know each other Me: 30, married but going to be divorced soon, without anything to do with her. I fell in love with her about the same time; After 2-3 months of silence, I spoke to her and we started dating by end of june; I wasn't looking for rebound or something like this, it's just that life got me to know the most amazing person...at the wrong time We had a very strong connection, we had great time together, she told me that neither she was looking for adventure but was verry verry unsure about what to do and she was verry scared to leave her current relationship. I know that sonds cheesy, but we both felt like soulmates to each other. We were friends, lovers, coleagues and everything we did matched great. Her BF started to smell something for about 2 months and she kept denying but a month ago, after he saw a call I made to her brought it up again..she cracked and told him. It was a verry painfull experience to her and we didn't talk for about a month...then, i contacted her and she told me that she was very guilty and decided to stay with him. However, she sounded kind of doubtfull about her decision I did't do any of that sms terror or else, I respected her decision although it kills me because i love her more than anything else and she knows that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. I love her so much that i want her to be happy, even if I am not a part of it... However, even if I started the process of moving on, I still hope that she changes her mind. I want HER, not just a girl. I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I am so sorry that I lost the PERSON she was. So, any chance that she comes back? Their relationship was'n bad but not that great either...and now there is cheating between them and a lot of guilt. I never wanted her to experience this, and as strange as it may sound, I am sorry that her BF has to suffer too. In 2-3 months I'll be single...and I'd like to have another chance, because we could be so great together as a couple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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