indigoblue Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 I just realized how lonely I am recently. I feel like I date around and lead guys on unintentionally because I like company Idk how to cure myself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sim54 Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 Firstly, welcome to being a human being. Life is lonely. At times, incredibly lonely. You are born alone, and you die alone and in between, there are times when you are alone. Stop using people as emotional tampons, and FACE yourself. Investigate your loneliness. Experience it. Embrace it. Welcome it, as part of life and part of you. Sink into it for a while, then call a good friend and invite them to do something. Think of something fun to do, and do it for them, and with them. Do this with a friend, not a lover. You don't need to cure loneliness, as it's not an illness, you just need to get used to it being a part of life, then you can take steps to improve your relationships, rather than just using people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delancey Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 I just realized how lonely I am recently. I feel like I date around and lead guys on unintentionally because I like company Idk how to cure myself Please don't do that; I am in the process of dating a girl right now who appears to be leading me on. She kissed me passionately, invited me in to her house, and talked about plans for us to share a weekend together. The next day, she canceled all of our plans and nothing has been the same ever since. Be straight forward with us guys, otherwise it really sucks being mislead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indigoblue Posted October 17, 2011 Author Share Posted October 17, 2011 I feel so down because I got so sexual with two men that I barely knew before. Idk what it is... I feel so bad b/c I didn't have sexual experience before but now I feel worse and I feel guilty cos I might have hurt them. Sometimes maybe I'm a lesbian... but I don't feel particularly attracted to women. I'm not sure whether I should seek counselling. I keep thinking of a past abuse that could have happened, but I'm not even sure if it's real... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ILYx3 Posted October 18, 2011 Share Posted October 18, 2011 hang out with friends that u like and are most comfortable with. also its wrong to sleep with men u barely knew. Cuz like there are many risks u can have while have sexual intercourse. why do it with a person who u dont love or know? u can seek counselling if u think ur issue is a big problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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