Youngandready Posted October 17, 2011 Share Posted October 17, 2011 So I've been attracted to this gentleman that works at my complex for about a year. We've exchanged business cards and phone numbers. We've written several emails to each other that usually consists of small talk. We've never hung out before. We also park in the same area so we randomly pass each other in the mornings and evenings. I've noticed that if it has been a long time without seeing each other (3-5 weeks) he will purposely park beside me. He always does this. I've never asked him if he has a girlfriend because I think I'll be too devastated. I know I should just go ahead and ask him but I'm too scared and the other part of me thinks that he'll deny it. There is also quite a bit of an age difference, he's 34 and I'm 24. It doesn't bother me but his reluctance to talk to me on a consistent matter leads me to believe that he may have a problem with the age. I may mention something about an older artist and he'll say things like "you don't know anything about them, you weren't even born". So things got a little hot and heavy in our last emails exchanged but he never responded to my last one. He compliments me when he sees me and also remembers things that I've told him in the past. Is it safe to say that he's just a heavy flirter? Or maybe has a girlfriend? I can't tell. Guys--your help is much appreciated! Link to comment
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