kite Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Time does help to heal the wound. It allows me to put things in perspective and learn more about myself. I am no means of heart broken, hurt, or anything like that anymore. It's been a year and I have been doing well with myself. Suddenly, I miss him very much after hearing someone's voice that resembles his. I thought that I have moved on after all this time of NC, but lately I just wish to contact him to catch up and to possibly try to date each other again. I liked him, and I still do. I am not sure if it is a good idea to contact him, or enough time has passed to revisit. My head says to keep moving on and stop that longing... Can anyone relate to this feeling? Link to comment
AvonRepus Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 What if you try to get in touch with him and he's involved with somebody else? How would you feel and are you ready to take the risk? Link to comment
Di84 Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 I am one year post breakup as well, and I miss him occasionally too. But you need to remind yourself that this person left you and never looked back or even cared to contact you...so why should you care to contact them? Don't go backwards. Keep moving forward. Link to comment
kite Posted October 16, 2011 Author Share Posted October 16, 2011 I am aware that it is a possibility, and a risk that I will be taking if I do contact him. If he's involved with someone else, I'd be disappointed, I guess. Link to comment
kite Posted October 16, 2011 Author Share Posted October 16, 2011 Maybe that's what I need to hear, Di84. Link to comment
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