Heather Hurst Posted October 16, 2011 Share Posted October 16, 2011 Hi, my boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. His reason was that for the last couple of weeks he hasn't felt like the relationship is right anymore (we are both in university, and a week before the break up he said he needed space, but I was pushy and kept seeing him and asking him where we are in the relationship). We've been together 2 years, and have broken up before during big arguments, but have always been back together in about 2 days before (although it has always been me chasing him to get back together those times). It came as such a surprise because everything had been going great for months before he said he needed space - we had no arguments, went out with groups of friends most nights, as well as spending some nights in together just snuggled up watching TV. After the break up I did not contact him for 2 days, but today I called him. I told him that I am fine with the break up, that I want to be friends, and we had a chat about a few tv shows we like and usually watch together. However, he said he only wants to see me with other people around (as it will be awkward if we are alone together), and that it will be a long time before we can be close friends. He sounded down and kind of miserable, but he mentioned nothing about wanting me back or wanting to even talk about us, and he didn't ask how I am doing, even though he knows I have been quite ill the past week. I just want peoples' opinion on whether or not there is a chance he will ever ask for me back? And if so what is the best way to make this happen? (I love him with all my heart and miss him so much I can't stop crying). I will see him tomorrow night as our circle of friends is meeting up, how should I behave? Thanks for all your help! Link to comment
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