The breakup line decoder...

[LetLifeFlow]

Does anyone have any insight to what a woman means when she says something like this?

 

" I love you and will always love you but I just cant seem to fall in love with you"

 

At this point, it really doesn't matter. The relationship is over.

I know I'll never get an explaination or closure from her. So, I'm just curious...

 

Thanks!

[LDRohnos]

To me that means, "I love you as if I loved a brother, but beyond that I have no romantic feelings for you."

[Klokwurk]

She is being honest. She cares about you. You are not evil, and you have real feelings and qualities.

 

But you just don't do it anymore for her. She wants to try something new. Let her go. I am sorry.

[lavenderdove]

People can't always quantify emotion, but it sounds like she feels she is just missing that sense of attraction and connection one needs to wholeheartedly commit to another.

 

It could also mean that she's the kind of person who wants to be swamped in those 'new love' hormones and when the initial pizzazz is gone, she goes looking for the next high.

 

People also don't always tell you the real reason why they break up with you... she may have met some new guy who got her all hot and bothered and she compared that extra zing against a long term relationship and decided to chase the new guy. They rarely admit that is the reason they are leaving because it makes them look bad to be lusting after someone new while still in a relationship with someone else.

[LetLifeFlow]

I appreciate your insight.

 

Thanks again.