Casperlady Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 Ok a bit of background info, 3 weeks ago I went out for night with a girl im used to be friends with, on the night I seen a guy my friend was talking to i thought he was cute but didn't say anything to anyone cause there was a girl wit him who I assumed was his gf. Anyway his friend got my friends number and rang my friend off his phone.So the next day he texts my friend asking bout me. My friend gave him my number and we started texting then went on few dates got on really well and he asked me to be his gf. So we are together 2 weeks and today I got a job in England which means ill probably be moving in January. I texted him to tell him and while he was happy for me he seemed not himself then he couldnt reply and about 2 hrs later said he was going to bed and didn't leave xxx as he normally does so I knew he was annoyed. Then he text saying we shud break up since I was going to UK. I said I didn't want to as I was hoping we cud work something out. He then said he didn't know if he cud do that and then said ya that he would do longdistance as I I am now asking him to take the time to really think about wat it would mean, I realise now that though I like him it might be best for him if I let him go now when we are just getting to know each other, but I dont want to lose a potentially good thing either. I said to him I want him to way up the pros and cons and really think about it cause I dont want him getting hurt or going into it blindly. Am I doing the right thing, he seems to thing I just want to end things, I just dont know what to do. All I know is I spent 6 years trying to get my nurses degree it was very hard and honest I can get a worthwhile career is to leave Ireland. I like him and I dont want to hurt him I just want to do what is best for him and me. Please help Link to comment
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