I know i did the right thing buuuuuuttt....

[les9861]

Why does it bother me to see him out and about like he is fine. He is a jack a$$.. this shouldn't bother me! Does anyone else have this problem?

[offplanet]

Maybe you think he should spend his life pining away for you because you're such an unforgettable person, and the fact that he doesn't is reflection on your worth! Joking, but there's some truth in this concept I think. I've felt like it myself at times.

[les9861]

I really don't think that's too much to ask for.. lol

[offplanet]

Yes of course, why not?

[les9861]

I just hate going form having a date every Friday, to sorting laundry on a Friday night... I'm lonely i guess, and most of our mutual friends are all out with him...

[MK9]

Because you want him to need you, you feel that he should be miserable without you. It is an ego kind of thing. Sometimes I secretly wish my ex to fall of the stair and break her neck. I hate it when she's out having fun with my money, car, and things I brought for her when we're together.

 

but now I don't care anymore. whenever I think of her, I go to the living run and play with the punching bag.

[les9861]

How long does it take not to care?

[MK9]

until you see the persons for what they truly are instead of romanticizing about them. it took me a couple of years...but fortunately when I was suffering I didn't sit at home and cry my eyes out...no, I went to the gym, I run all day, Ii study philosophy, etc..I learn not to take life too seriously afterward. Now i am healthy as I can be. win/win.

 

it is ok to have all those negative feelings, but do something with it that will benefit you later.