Saw him again (he did not see me):it hurts like hell

[utopie]

Hi everybody,

 

I won't tell my story again (you can find it in my previous posts) but my BF of 3 years (living with me for 2) broke up with me out of the blue about 3 weeks ago: i let him go peacefully, with no reproach. We identified all the problems in this relationship: the fact that we got into a routine which made him emotionally satisfied but not physically (lately I had not been satisfied either and let him know. We are both grad students and I think we took each other for granted, worked too much). He doesn't know whether he took the right decision and last time he saw me he told me he had to think about us because when he saw me it reminded him of all the things he adored about me. I have not contacted him in 2 weeks and he is supposed to give me back my snowboard (it's in a storage that is kind of far). He actually insisted on returning it to me and I told him he could drop it off. He emailed me 2 weeks ago to let me know he might drop it off during the week (last week) and was going to email me to let me know when. He never did. What's up with that? I don't get it. I asked him to drop it off and I would pick it up after (he does not have to see me). Nothing though. I hate the fact that he's dragging the whole thing. I just want it to be over with.

 

Today i was at a bar with some friends and I saw one of his friends walking in. She saw me and I immediately knew he as going to come soon. I was about to leave when he went him. I saw him but he didn't. I left immediately. I have been doing OK for a week but it just hurts so bad to see him again, going about his business, having drinks with his friends, not having a care in the world, basically being fine with me out of his life.

 

I need some advice/opinion. Breakups suck, especially this one.

[tmtex]

Its hard, very hard and hurts. I hate my ex wife but today someone posted and old pic on FB and gets things going. Its hard but just be strong and move on !!!