chocapss Posted October 15, 2011 Share Posted October 15, 2011 I'm in a serious rut here guys... We've worked for the same company for 3 years, he's white, 41, I'm black 39. I am physically attracted to him and have been from the first time I spoke to him at our annual thanksgiving dinner party in the conference room. I felt something, not sure what it was but it sent chills through me... Anyway, he's stayed in his corer and I've stayed in mine... we say hi hello in the hallways yada yada yada... So in July, he sent me an email: "you look hot today, just saying " I sad thank you and eventually he asked me out for a drink. Cancelled on me the first time, the second time he had to leave early to tend to sick relative butthe 3rd attempt, we went out for a drink after work at a local bar. He spoke only about work at the bar, which was fine, it's something we have in common... On the way home, we walk for a couple blocks and said goodbye. First he shook my hand them he kissed me on my cheek. (I literally melted but tried extremely hard not to let my excitement nd desire for more show). I txt him to let him know that I got home safe and he said that he would like to got out again and not talk about work. It's been a week since either one of us have said anything to eachother, via email or face to face at work. I really, really like him but I want to find out if he likes me too. I'm thining that he's hesitant not only because I'm black but because we're co-workers also. So now what? Any suggestions guys? I'm definitely single and he is too. I'm feeling this guy, think about him all the time, how can I know if he's thinking about me to or wants to get to know me more... Link to comment
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