Samedy Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Third date went really well... Not sure if it was a date as much as just going out to eat. The evening started with Google Maps not exactly leading me to the right place, so after giving up on the planned restaurant we figured we would see what else was in the area... 5 blocks away we drove by the restaurant, so it took another few minutes to figure out how to get there... She seemed to think the whole thing was funny... Neither of us had much experience eating with chop-sticks and instead of asking for forks or helper-chop-stick, we stuck it out and struggled with the chop-sticks... Which lead to a lot of laughs (I haven't had that much fun eating, or trying to eat, in...ever). The restaurant was fun with the chef coming out and giving free samples to tables and talking to people. The part that threw me, is at one point he came by and asked who I was, friend, boyfriend, etc... She said friend.. That's the part that threw me.. Third time out, stranger asks what we are... Is that what you would say no matter what? After he did a few repeat after me dialogue, he told me what to say to her... Which to his credit was kind of good.. A lot of the things I want to say but am too darn shy... "You are a beautiful woman whose friendship means...." I will admit after that I had to struggle not to break a sweat. The evening went well, other than that, I really hope I'm not friend-zoned... We stayed in the restaurant just about until closing (10ish)... And I was pleased that she seemed to be surprised by the time when it finished.. So I can assume she was not bored and had fun.. She even paid for the both of us at the end; not sure why, she said it was the "least she could do"... I did drive her home (I was surprised how far she has had to travel to all of our meets. She has been late, but I can understand seeing as how far she has been coming out. I did ask her if she had any plans for the weekend she said "No", but most likely would (friend-zoned)... When I dropped her off there was no kiss, other than our standard kiss on the cheek... I know I am overanalyzing... and this is all just a scratch of everything I am thinking... At the end of the last meeting, I wasn't sure if we had enough in common and if we would have enough to talk about... But after last night, I don't feel that at all.. Now I REALLY want to see her again.. And the last thing I want is to be friend-zoned. Neurotically Yours, - Samedy... The Thursday night out was nice... But oh my gosh it was difficult to relax enough to sleep last night... *sigh* Link to comment
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